A lot of people think that the art of finding pussy online is necessarily hard. Most guys think that adult dating sites are a meat market, meaning there’s a lot more sausages than pussies. This is why a lot of guys don’t even bother with those types of websites. They think that the chances of succeeding are pretty much the same as being struck by lightning twice.
This really is too bad for them and amazingly good news for guys like me who love using adult dating sites. All I can say to guys who think that way is, “Great, keep thinking that way and more pussy for me.” That’s right, more pussy for me. The truth is if you know what you’re doing, the typical adult hookup site will not only be able to deliver pussy, but can deliver quality pussy. I hope you understand the big difference between the two.
A lot of American dudes think that just because you’re sticking your dick into a tight hole then you’re hooking up. No, that’s not how it works. You see, pussy is not just pussy. Not all women are created equal. Some women are worth fucking. Other women are bullshit, seriously. You need to stay the fuck away from them. In fact, you wouldn’t even want to fuck them with somebody else’s dick. That’s how foul they are. They’re bad news.
I don’t mean to sound harsh, but this is the reality. I’m sure women say the same thing about certain guys. You have to know who to hook up with. The key here is it’s all about freedom.
Look for chicks who want to be free
The key is looking for women who like the thrill and risk of adult hookups. You’re not looking for women who have emotional issues with their dads or men in their lives. You’re not looking for women who have some sort of an ax to grind or have some sort of point to make. Those women will play with your head. That’s not my thing. That’s why I keep saying you need to avoid certain types of women. The women that you should flock to are chicks who are okay with having sex with no emotional strings attached. They’re the ones who are willing, ready and able to give everything they have to make sure that both of you have a good time. Those are great partners.
Stay away from chicks who are out to dominate you when you’re not into domination. Just stay away from chicks who are out to play with your emotions. Believe it or not, a large chunk of the women that hang out at anonymous online adult dating sites are not there to fuck. They’re there to fuck with your head. Two totally different things. They would tease you. They would tell all sorts of stories with sexy details intended to get guys all hard, but they don’t show up. This is why I’m really lucky that I hooked up with Teresa. She really opened my mind to hooking up the right way online.
Teresa: A short story
Teresa is a short, dark Italian chick that lives on the other side of town. We saw each other’s profile on this adult dating site that I’ve been using for some time. I never really thought much of it, but then she keeps sending me some messages. I thought it was a typical psycho chick message and I just pretty much ignored it. But one time, she was talking about some sports event and it really got my attention. So, we exchanged messages and I really was struck by her sense of humor.
The thing about Teresa is she may not be much to look at. She looks squat, a little bit chunky, her skin is a little bit rough. A lot of guys would probably laugh out loud and think that she fits the typical stereotype of a hairy Italian woman. But there’s something about her, especially the fire in her eyes that really attracted me to her. I’m not talking about buddy-buddy here nor am I talking about a girlfriend material. I’m just talking about an interesting person that you’d like to be around.
So, anyway, we hang out one time and she ended up sucking my dick and riding my cock and the thing that really blew my mind about it was that hanging out with her was like hanging out with my best friend. The best part is that she’s not my best friend. There’s no emotional attachment there. There’s no emotional obligation and this gave the relationship, if you want to call it that, a tremendous amount of freedom.
I felt that I can truly be myself around her. And it turns out that she is very open. She ended up referring me to her friends. These friends are better-looking than her and she didn’t mind me banging them in front of her and she even participated from time to time. Now she’s one of my closest friends. I mean, I’m not talking about girlfriend, but she’s one of my closest confidants.
What this tells me is that the art of the adult hookup is not difficult. It’s only difficult if you read a lot of difficulty into it. If you’re a very insecure person and you try to make things harder on yourself, then it will be hard. I hope you see where I’m coming from. Thanks to open-minded people like Teresa, and I know she’s not the only one out there, there are many guys who can experience the same tremendous amount of freedom that I experienced. Thanks to her help… And OK also a small thanks to the hookup site that helped us to find each other; LocalPussy.org